Summer is officially here, and honestly? It’s the universe giving you full permission to be your most magnetic, confident, glorious self.
Think about it: long days, warm nights, dewy skin, big sunnies, clingy dresses, rainstorms, picnics, barbeques, boat trips… the vibes are immaculate. Summertime is like a full moon on steroids — everything is juicier, brighter, riper. Including you.
So if you’re currently sitting under a blasting AC rewatching Bravo while mentally counting down to your friend’s baby shower and dreading your family reunion — we get it. But also? We’re about to change that.
Here are 4 steps to manifesting your absolute sexiest summer ever.
Every iconic summer needs an anthem. This is non-negotiable. Your theme is a song, movie, or mantra that shapes your mindset and the choices you make all season long. It sounds extra, but trust — it works.
Some inspo to get you started:
The idea isn’t to be literal. It’s to give yourself a filter for the season. Ask yourself: what would my summer anthem self do? Then do that.
Okay, manifesting girlies, this one’s for you — but honestly, it works for everyone. Create a list of sexy summer goals. Some can be kinky AF. Some can be softer, more sensual. There’s no wrong answer here.
Examples to spark ideas:
Write. Them. Down. Once they’re on paper, they become real. The more you believe it, visualize it, and feel it in your body before it happens, the faster it shows up. This is just how manifesting works.
All the vision boarding in the world means nothing if you don’t take action. Pick one goal. Do one scary thing. Start small if you need to — smile at one attractive human per day. That counts. Then build from there.
Tell a friend your goals and have her check in on you. Did you say you’d show up to that pool party? Did you go? Text her. Stay accountable. (Not literally “on top of her.” Unless that’s one of your goals — then, by all means, go for it.) The point is: get it off paper and into real life this summer.
Here’s the thing nobody tells you: the moment you start putting your sexy intentions out into the world, your comfort zone is going to fight back hard.
Suddenly you’ll have a million reasons not to wear the bikini. Not to go to the party. Not to try the new thing. That’s your old patterns throwing a tantrum.
Here’s how to shut them down:
Step 1: Write down the three reasons you’re actually afraid. Not the fake ones — the real ones. Just do it quickly without overthinking.
Step 2: Burn that piece of paper over your kitchen sink. (Dramatic? Yes. Effective? Also yes.)
Step 3: Pick an affirmation that counters your specific fear. Something like “I love my curvy body” or “I am magnetic and desirable.” Say it to yourself in the mirror. Every day. Especially when you don’t feel like it.
Yes, it takes time. Yes, it works anyway.
Your body wants to be touched, celebrated, and seen this summer. Don’t deprive it of pleasures like dancing until midnight, swimming in salt water, or just sleeping naked with the window open.
The more fun you have, the more irresistible you become — to new people, to yourself, and yes, maybe to that person you want to go crazy for you again.
It doesn’t matter your age, shape, or size. Everyone gets a sexiest summer. You just have to decide you want one — and then actually show up for it.